Enneagram 2w3 – The Host

Have you ever know someone generous, caring, and helpful while staying committed to their personal and professional goals? That’s Enneagram 2w3. They have a unique blend of traits of enneagram type 2 and wing type 3. From type 2, they have nurturing and supportive traits while from type 3 they are more goal-oriented and always stay committed to their personal growth. People, with the 2w3 personality type, are known for their compassionate nature always ready to lend a helping hand while also prioritizing their development. They tend to be ambitious and self-focused driven by a desire to reach their goals and attain success.

What is 2w3 Enneagram?

They are commonly called as The Host. They combine the generous, caring, and helpful nature of type 2 and goal-oriented, ambitious, and self-conscious traits from type 3. The unique blend of both types makes an individual who always strives to help others while staying focused and committed to their goals. These individuals have a deep to be successful. 2w3s have deep empathy for others and they are aware of other’s needs and strive to fulfill needs through their actions. These individuals have a desire to be surrounded by successful individuals. From type 2 traits they want others to be successful.

2w3 Meaning

2w3 refers to a personality in which 2 is the Enneagram type and 3 is their wing type and when we combine both types it creates an individual who is both caring and ambitious. These individuals always strive to be seen as more competent and they always try to excel in their social and personal life. 

2w3 Personality Traits

• They are Self-caring and Goal Oriented
• Adaptable and flexible
• Positive and Optimistic
• Passionate Advocates
• Focused and Responsible
• Put Other’s needs first while focusing on their own goals 
• Extroverts and social
• Supportive Leaders
• Diligent

Core Fear

The main and core fear of 2w3s is to be unwanted and unloved. They are afraid of loneliness and try their best to get love from everywhere They have a fear of rejection due to which they are sensitive to criticism and always try to avoid it. Their fear comes from the belief that their worth is linked with their achievements. Because of their fears, they always want validation and acknowledgment from others. They control these fears by making strong friendships and connections.

Core Desire

Their core and main desire is to be loved and accepted and they strive to achieve this by becoming attentive  They always want others to recognize and acknowledge their achievements. They always want appreciation for their struggles. As they have type 2 traits So they strive to help others while staying committed to their personal goals and their ethical values. 2w3s always struggle to fulfill their desires and to get warmth from others.

2w3 Strengths and Weaknesses 

Strengths

• Build Strong connections
• Passion to serve others 
• Open Hearted People
• Prefer to listen than talk
• Great Inspiring Skills
• Leadership Skills 
• Growth and Goal Oriented
• Empathic and Adaptiv Nature 
• Conflict Mediator
• Ambitious and Altruistic

Weaknesses

• Self Neglecting
• Take too much stress
• Required External Validations
• Overcommitted
• Sensitive to criticism 
• Self-critical
• Fear Of Rejection
• Sacrifice Integrity
• Emotional Sensitivity
• Lack Of Authenticity

Healthy vs Unhealthy Enneagram 2W3 

Healthier 2w3s are naturally friendly and always spread generosity and empathy towards others. They always try to focus on the positive side of situations and they acknowledge the importance of managing situations in a creative way. Healthier ones always strive to achieve their goals and to be successful. They promote a positive environment in their personal and professional life. These individuals are concerned about their status and desirability while also focusing on other’s needs and problems. These individuals always try to motivate and inspire others with their actions. They are adaptive and resilient. These individuals have high ambitions and are growth and goal-oriented

On the other hand, unhealthier 2w3s are emotionally manipulative and self-critical. They become stressed and depressed when they can’t achieve their goals and objectives. Due to their high principles and ethical values sometimes they destroy their relationships. When they fail they look for other faults rather than their own. Unhealtheir ones find difficulties in setting boundaries. These individuals are overly dependent on validation and external appreciation. They want everyone to give them value and love. To maintain their worth in other’s viewpoint they neglect their self and needs. They often struggle to receive assistance from others as they see it as a sign of weakness.

2w3 Relationships and Love 

2w3 and 4w5

Relation between both personalities is harmonious and challenging. They both have a desire for connections but their approaches are different. 2w3 are extroverts and they always want social interaction and validation and always strive to achieve their goals and ambitions while 4w5s are introverts. They always want deep emotional relations and connections. They have their own world of thoughts and feelings.

2w3 and 3w2

2w3 and 3w2 relations are both highly dynamic and balanced as they share the core traits of type 3 ambitious and goal-oriented and type 2 generous and caring. They both have deep desires to achieve success and to have a positive impact on the world. These individuals are highly competitive which can cause issues in their relationships. They both require external validations and appreciation 

Compatibility

2w3s are compatible with types that give value and empathy towards relationships. They generally desire for love and appreciation from others. They are compatibility levels are higher with type 3s and type 6s because type 3s give value to goals and ambitions and type 6s are loyal and supportive.

2w3 in Love 

In their love relations, they are caring, loving, and supportive partners. They always try to give value to their partners. 2w3s always desire validation and appreciation from their loved ones. However, sometimes they struggle with insecurities and rejection fears that cause hurdles in their relationships.

2w3 Female

Females having 2w3 personalities are ambitious and goal-oriented.
They always try to help others while focusing on their success and growth. 
In relationships, they are generous, supportive, and caring and always try to help their loved ones in any situation. In professional life, they are leaders and motivators. They take their tasks and duties very seriously. They always strive to achieve their goals and ambitions while positively impacting the environment. Sometimes they face struggles due to their high principles and ethical values.

2w3 Childhood

2w3s types of children have a strong desire to help others. From an early age, They try to fulfill their responsibilities seriously As they are extroverts they always desire to find a good company. They struggle a lot because they want appreciation from others.

2w3 Relation with Specific MBTI Types:

INFP 2w3

They are creative individuals with a unique mixture of idealism and ambitions. They are compassionate individuals who always strive to make the world a better and more positive place. Their core desire is to be loved and appreciated. They are more goal-oriented and extroverted.

INFJ 2w3

These individuals combine the empathic and visionary traits of INFJ. INFJ 2w3s are inspiring leaders. Sometimes they make themselves over critical because of their high moral and ethical values. One of the weaknesses is that they want acceptance from others which makes them stressed or depressed.

ENFJ 2w3

They are extroverts and have a people-oriented nature to ENFJ. They are natural and inspiring leaders and they always struggle for the well-being of their community. One of the weaknesses is that they always neglect their self and their needs.

2w3 Characters and Celebrities 

Individuals having type 2w3 are as follows

• Charles Dickens – English Writer
• Sarah Palin – American Politician
• Ariana Grande – American Singer
• Jimmy Carter – U.S president
• Barack Obama – U.S president
• Selena Gomez – American Actress
• Bill Clinton – U.S President

Anime and Frictional Characters 

• Sakura Harnu- Naruto
• Misa Amane –  Death Note
• Elizabeth Lioness – The Seven Deadly Sins
• Nami – One Piece
• Sasha Blouse – Attack on Titan
• Ochaco Uraraka – Mu her Academia 

2w3 Career paths 

• Public Relations
• HR Managers
• Project Managers
• Writers
• Sales Representatives 
• Therapists
• Entrepreneurs
• Event Planners
• Fundraisers

In Summary 

Individuals having 2w3s are commonly known as the host. These individuals are more ambitious and goal-oriented. They always strive to help others focusing on their ethical values and staying committed to their personal growth and success. Their core desire is to get value and love from others and their core fear is to be unwanted and unloved. They also have a fear of rejection. 

They are the leaders and motivators who always try to inspire others positively. In relationships, they are kind and generous towards their partners. Females shaving this personality are more ambitious and and want to achieve their goals. These individuals one other main weakness is that they want external appreciation and validation. 

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